Dr.
Louann Brizendine, clinical professor of psychiatry at the University of
California, San Francisco states in "The Female Brain" that a woman uses about 20,000 words per day
while a man uses about 7,000." Funtrivia.com
So
I have approximately 20,000 words every day.
Think about that - 20,000 words every day. Now that is a lot of words I am floating out
into the universe. Back in March I
blogged about taking trash talk from my vocabulary which has freed up a lot of
words for me. So in a time when all the
talk is about shortages, I am dealing with a surplus of words at the end of my
day. Now I will have to say that I find
this new found surplus exciting. What
should I do with all these extra words I have to speak every day?
Simple
deductive reasoning tells me that I have this excess because I have eliminated
negative words so it naturally follows that positive words should fill up the
void. The word blessings sounds old and
antiquated, but maybe it is a word that needs to make a comeback. Remember those bell bottom pants they came
back. Headbands, scrunchies, and even
blue eye shadow made a comeback so I don’t think bringing back the word
blessings is a wild idea at all. What is the definition of blessing you ask -
bless•ing noun 1.the act or words of a person who blesses.
Think
about it, or maybe to put you in an Old Testament frame of mind, – Selah. The
Old Testament is filled with word blessings. How many times recently has
someone spoken a blessing over you? Has
anyone ever spoken a blessing over you?
How many times today have you spoken blessings over someone else? I don’t know about you but I think I know
exactly where my surplus words should go.
I need to start using my surplus words as blessings. Listen to this blessing. Deuteronomy 28¨1 -6
“If you fully obey the Lord your God and carefully keep all his commands that I
am giving you today, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations
of the world. 2 You will experience all these blessings if you obey the Lord
your God: Your towns and your fields
will be blessed. Your children and your
crops will be blessed. The offspring of
your herds and flocks will be blessed.
Your fruit baskets and breadboards will be blessed. Wherever you go and whatever you do, you will
be blessed.” Talk about putting your
surplus words to good use. WOW what a
blessing!!!
The
New Testament gives us some good examples of using our words to bless. Romans 1:7 To all in Rome who are loved by God and called
to be his holy people: Grace and peace to you from God our Father and from the
Lord Jesus Christ.
Those
words of blessings are spoken over and over in the New Testament by Paul.
Mother
Teresa said this, "There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this
world than for bread."
I
think this is the perfect way for me to use my surplus words. I think you will be amazed, as I have been,
the impact that just a few words of blessing can be to someone. For some, it may be the bread that sustains
them for one more day. Take these next
31 words as my words of blessings to you today.
Numbers
6:24-26“The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you
and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.
”’